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It is not yet midNight but it is time for me to present the dreaded words no one likes to hear, Can We Talk. So often we close our eyes not to see the things we think don't effect us. This is almost saying we did not notice the elephant in the middle of the small living room of the party we were acting as though we enjoyed. This is for the men but ladies please give us your opinion because we are in desperate need of information. How many of us men believe the problems in our relationship is not our fault. We remember when things went wrong but not exactly why. Maybe just saying I'm sorry when its not your turn grew old. Maybe always doing the things you thought needed done no longer worked. Imagine the smoothness of your conversation sounded a bit rough. Never the less you are in a place you are unfamiliar with the arena of broken. Broken communication, broken glances, broken sentences because you are unaware of what happened when.
What if we sat down, no flowers because there is nothing to apologize for, no candles we can find our way in the dark. No normal fix for whats not working. Men think love conquers all even when we do not touch the way we used to touch. Even when we lick less or our normal back stroke motion is a little off. Sometimes the fix is hiding behind closed lips. Lick like your life depends on it. If need be lick her to sleep. Then wake her up with those same strokes of tongue. The truth is not always spoken, often it is the motion our bodies take. I would like to think any man could fix their relationship problems by intuitively listening to the rhythm of body language and answering the call to satisfaction. Stop and ask; have I really satisfied you sexually. But be prepared to hear the no answer that may follow. Listen, and learn; what you always thought you were good at, you were not. What you thought you knew, you never asked if you were even pursuing the right questions. So men please take the time to learn the likes and dislikes of your mate and listen to the laughter, the moans and ask her what do you want me to do today. Prepare yourself for battle because you may have never truly satisfied her needs, she may have just settled for the nice guy. Remember it is never too late to re-invent yourself, don't be afraid to get the help you need to last longer than three minutes. Practice your tongue movements you must become the being of satisfaction if you plan to keep your mate. It is not yet midNight, so maybe you should wait to read this. It is a MAN thing to be the initiator, to be the one that knows what true satisfaction sounds like. Stop, Listen and takes notes yourself on what works and don't be afraid to ask......... How was your Day? Can I lick it BETTER! If not sit here and let me massage all the stress from your legs and back, that's my job. Come to me when you need anything my purpose is for you to be satisfied. Men we must insure we have done our best at everything. Women, Ladies, Please let me know if I missed the mark, because I live to learn. Teach me how to be a better Man. I wait your reply.
AJ

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Comment by Margaurite on April 20, 2009 at 9:53pm: hey dahlin! just thinking bout u...have a fab eve!

Comment by Crystal J on February 12, 2009 at 12:42pm: Not much at all. I only know how to tweak that language thats already been written. I guess you can say my brain works in reverse on somethings.

Comment by AJ Houston on February 12, 2009 at 12:15pm: Much respect. Thanks again. Oh yea, do you know html?
Blessings

Comment by Crystal J on February 12, 2009 at 10:42am: Likewise, fellow pen pusher. Apologies in the process of learning are unnecessary. Each input is a win because its something that we didnt have prior to.
The appreciation is returned 10 fold; its always a treat to watch a man reveal himself through unconventional means.

Comment by AJ Houston on February 11, 2009 at 11:29pm: Crystal J, I thank you fortaking the time to post yourcomments. I always look forward to your flavor. I must apologize for the structure of the discussion. It began from a mans perspective and ended with the specifics of men thinking sexual but failing to listen and learn how to truly communicate. Here is an excerpt...."Stop and ask; have I really satisfied you sexually. But be prepared to hear the no answer that may follow. Listen, and learn; what you always thought you were good at, you were not. What you thought you knew, you never asked if you were even pursuing the right questions. So men please take the time to learn the likes and dislikes of your mate and listen to the laughter,". If placed in reverse order maybe my friend Del would not refer to the discussion as gutterly written. But I thank everybody simply for their reply. I try hard to veiw in circular thought. Hoping to capture the subject matter if not in its entirety but give a portion of all three sides. Thank you again. I appreciate YOU.

Comment by Crystal J on February 11, 2009 at 10:26pm: I had previously decided to pass on this discussion after writing a response. Uncertainty got the best of me but wasted words are a writer’s sin so…here goes.

This is one of those conversations that could spider web into a roundtable discussion. As always I’ll do my best.

With much consideration, I’ve come up with the most sincere contribution that I can offer. It’s most important for MEN & WOMEN to understand that although physicality is seemingly the first offering in sexuality, it is NOT. We sometimes forget this. If we don’t know that our minds are to first be satisfied…the cycle of misfire continues. (Thank God for growth as now I know better!) Within the walls of the mind sounds the starting pistol of intimacy and sexuality. Some of us are off and running on silence. Eager to get to where we are trying to go but quickly we arrive at Frustrated Ave. wondering where we made the wrong turn. We fail to seek Mental Intimacy. We don’t know each other. We are strangers wandering around each other’s bodies hoping for success.

Prior to the pleasures of penetration, mental excavation will unlock the doors of intimacy, no matter who you are.

To my partner I offer efforts of balancing the desires to please with the desires to be pleased; I keep my mind and heart open to change and growth; I try never to lose sight of reality and how it weighs against our hopes of bringing each other a paramount experience every time we are intimate. Subpar is not an option. But again, before I attempt to “lick” or be, I search and submit to be searched for that GSpot in the mind. Here is where the wellspring of passion overflows and manifests across the board.

Comment by AJ Houston on February 9, 2009 at 12:27am: Much respect. I believe if I had started with the later portion of the conversation the beginning would be made more palatable. It talked of communication, of listening. I don't believe any form of satisfaction can accrue if you do not know the language of your mate. That is every version of words spoken, whispered, eye to eye, hand in hand or as the text say laughed out loud. In essence I meant to say I would like to be able to communicate with my mates double helix. Understanding is paramount. Thank you for your input, I am only here to learn I needed that. Please everyone, keep teaching me to be a better, more understanding, more affectionate MAN. Blessings

Comment by Millicent Courtney Ware on February 8, 2009 at 7:46pm: Hmmm... I have caught up on all of the commentary; and will simply offer this for contrast and coloration...

All too often, men are guilty of a sexual 'lead in' to problem resolution. Not a hopeless romantic; but subscribing to the true ideal of romanticism, I see clearly this pandemic of enormous proportions. We should all be listening with clarity and seeing what is actually there; as opposed to waiting to invert our own wishes and personal agendas. That is where the idea of connection only begins to dissipate.

AJ, I don't believe that the mark was missed, I believe that you spoke in the language of Man; which has quite a different translation from that of Woman. I understand both as I have spent my mature lifetime in intimation of each. There goes that word (or a variation): intimacy. If everyone actually knew the definition and acted upon its principle, both love and libidos would flourish, in tandem.

Until then...